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"Mother" Yolanda[1] Zbornak (neé Yitchinson) is a one-off character in The Golden Girls. She is the late mother of Stan and Ted Zbornak, and the former mother-in-law of Dorothy Zbornak.
Yolanda made her only appearance in the Season 3 episode "Mother's Day". She was portrayed by the late Alice Ghostley.
Personality and Traits[]
Yolanda was Stan Zbornak's "proud" mother. At first, she seems like a woman who spoils her son and despises her daughter in-law, hanging pictures of Stan on every wall in her trailer and treating Dorothy with the utmost contempt. However, it is revealed that she isn't fond of Stan in the least -- but she knows that the world makes fun of him enough, so she made him out to be more than he was to keep him from crumbling under his own failures.
Biography[]
Background[]
Yolanda is the mother of Stanley and Ted Zbornak. Yolanda was aware that Stan was a less than stellar child, so she babied him and put him on a pedestal to help him cope with the world making fun of him.[2]
Mother's Day[]
Yolanda's only physical appearance was in "Mother's Day", where Dorothy recounted a time where she and Stan were low on funds and needed to ask Yolanda for a $500 loan. When they arrived at her trailer, Yolanda once again went through her routine of animosity towards Dorothy. When Stan left the trailer to pretend to make a phone call, Yolanda showed her true colors and asked Dorothy how she could help the couple. When Dorothy was surprised by her change in demeanor, Yolanda explained why she treated Stan the way she did, and if she let on that she liked Dorothy, Stan would never leave Yolanda alone. She then gave Dorothy twice as much money as she needed -- $1,000 cash from her garterbelt -- under the condition that she never told Stan where she got the money. After the couple left, Yolanda began taking Stan's pictures down from the wall.[2]
Yolanda's reaction to Stan and Dorothy's divorce was never disclosed, but she was still alive by the time of "If At Last You Do Succeed". Stan mentioned that he couldn't take her to the dinner with the Japanese executives, as she chewed too loud and still called Japanese people "Japs".[3]
Death[]
Yolanda passed away sometime after "If At Last You Do Succeed".
Relationships[]
Stanley Zbornak[]
But after Stan leaves the trailer, Yolanda calls him a yutz and says that the whole world makes fun of him, and that's why she's making him out more than he is. She knows that Stan has a tendency to be weak, and if he knew his mother was a soft touch, he'd never amount to anything.
After ruining his second wedding with Dorothy, Stan decided he would go to therapy to try to get some form of closure. He said if Dorothy joined him on a session it might help him get over her sooner. Dorothy reluctantly agreed, however, as soon as they started the session, Stan started begging Dr. Halperin to help them "put this crazy marriage back together." After being yelled at, Stan accidentally called Dorothy "Sophia" while trying to proclaim his love for her. Dr. Halperin reveals that Stan made the same slip-up in an earlier session and concludes that Stan really wants to be near Sophia -- who represents Stan's own mother, who passed away before the two of them could resolve things.[4]
Dorothy Zbornak[]
Every Sunday, Stan and Dorothy would have dinner at Yolanda's house, which Dorothy dreaded enough that she compared it to the stress she suffered when Stan had gallbladder surgery.[5] When Dorothy and the girls were suffering from nightmares after renting Psycho, she remarked on how she declined to see it with Stan instead on an Sunday, she remarks that Yolanda was less scary than Norman Bates and that Bates dressed better as well.[6]
For the majority of Dorothy's marriage to Stan, Dorothy believed that Yolanda hated her as she would treat her very poorly whenever they met up. However, Dorothy would later learn that Yolanda was glad that Dorothy married Stan, because she was tough on him even though she loved him. She even gave Dorothy twice as much money as she needed, under the condition that she never told Stan that Yolanda provided the money. Dorothy looked at Yolanda in a different light afterwards.[2]
Kate and Michael Zbornak[]
In Sophia's flashback in "One for the Money", it is stated Kate and Michael were scared of Yolanda, and the last time they visited her prior to Sophia's flashback, Michael couldn't sleep for a week.[7]
Sophia Petrillo[]
The extent of Sophia's relationship with Yolanda isn't known, but Sophia didn't appear to be fond of her. She insisted that Yolanda "wasn't human" and believes she ate mice.[2]
Family tree[]
To be added.
Appearances[]
The Golden Girls (1985 - 1992)[]
Season 1
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| 1. "The Engagement": | Absent | 13. "A Little Romance": | Absent | ||
| 2. "Guess Who's Coming to the Wedding": | Mentioned | 14. "That Was No Lady": | Absent | ||
| 3. "Rose the Prude": | Absent | 15. "In a Bed of Rose's": | Absent | ||
| 4. "Transplant": | Absent | 16."The Truth Will Out": | Absent | ||
| 5. "The Triangle": | Absent | 17. "Nice and Easy": | Absent | ||
| 6. "On Golden Girls": | Absent | 18. "The Operation": | Absent | ||
| 7. "The Competition": | Absent | 19. "Second Motherhood": | Absent | ||
| 8. "Break-In": | Absent | 20. "Adult Education": | Absent | ||
| 9. "Blanche and the Younger Man": | Absent | 21. "The Flu": | Absent | ||
| 10. "The Heart Attack": | Absent | 22. "Job Hunting": | Absent | ||
| 11. "The Return of Dorothy's Ex": | Absent | 23. "Blind Ambitions": | Absent | ||
| 12. "The Custody Battle": | Absent | 24. "Big Daddy": | Absent | ||
| 25. "The Way We Met": | Mentioned | ||||
Season 3
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| 1. "Old Friends": | Absent | 14. "Blanche's Little Girl": | Absent | ||
| 2. "One for the Money": | Mentioned | 15. "Dorothy's New Friend": | Absent | ||
| 3. "Bringing Up Baby": | Absent | 16."Grab That Dough": | Absent | ||
| 4. "The Housekeeper": | Absent | 17. "My Brother, My Father": | Absent | ||
| 5. "Nothing to Fear But Fear Itself": | Absent | 18. "Golden Moments, Part 1": | Absent | ||
| 6. "Letter to Gorbachev": | Absent | 19. "Golden Moments, Part 2": | Absent | ||
| 7. "Strange Bedfellows": | Absent | 20. "And Ma Makes Three": | Absent | ||
| 8. "Brotherly Love": | Absent | 21. "Larceny and Old Lace": | Absent | ||
| 9. "A Visit from Little Sven": | Absent | 22. "Rose's Big Adventure": | Absent | ||
| 10. "The Audit": | Absent | 23. "Mixed Blessings": | Absent | ||
| 11. "Three on a Couch": | Absent | 24. "Mister Terrific": | Appears | ||
| 12. "Charlie's Buddy": | Absent | 25. "Mother's Day": | Absent | ||
| 13. "The Artist": | Absent | ||||
Season 6
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| 1. "Blanche Delivers": | Absent | 14. "Sister of the Bride": | Absent | ||
| 2. "Once, In St. Olaf": | Absent | 15. "Miles to Go": | Absent | ||
| 3. "If At Last You Do Succeed": | Mentioned | 16. "There Goes the Bride, Part 1": | Absent | ||
| 4. "Snap Out Of It": | Absent | 17. "There Goes the Bride, Part 2": | Absent | ||
| 5. "Wham, Bam, Thank You Mammy": | Absent | 18. "Older and Wiser": | Absent | ||
| 6. "Feelings": | Absent | 19. "Melodrama": | Absent | ||
| 7. "Zborn Again": | Absent | 20. "Even Grandmas Get the Blues": | Absent | ||
| 8. "How Do You Solve a Problem Like Sophia?": | Absent | 21. "Witness": | Absent | ||
| 9. "Mrs. George Devereaux": | Absent | 22. "What a Difference a Date Makes": | Absent | ||
| 10. "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun... Before They Die": | Absent | 23. "Love for Sale": | Absent | ||
| 11. "Stand By Your Man": | Absent | 24. "Never Yell Fire in a Crowded Retirement Home, Part 1": | Absent | ||
| 12. "Ebbtide's Revenge": | Absent | 25. "Never Yell Fire in a Crowded Retirement Home, Part 2": | Absent | ||
| 13. "The Bloom Is Off the Rose": | Absent | 26. "Henny Penny — Straight, No Chaser": | Absent | ||
Season 7
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| 1. "Hey, Look Me Over": | Absent | 14. "Old Boyfriends": | Absent | ||
| 2. "The Case of the Libertine Belle": | Absent | 15. "Goodbye, Mr. Gordon": | Absent | ||
| 3. "Beauty and the Beast": | Absent | 16. "The Commitments": | Absent | ||
| 4. "That's For Me To Know": | Absent | 17. "Questions and Answers": | Absent | ||
| 5. "Where's Charlie?": | Absent | 18. "Ebbtide VI: The Wrath of Stan]": | Absent | ||
| 6. "Mother Load": | Absent | 19. "Journey to the Center of Attention": | Absent | ||
| 7. "Dateline: Miami": | Absent | 20. "A Midwinter Night's Dream, Part 1": | Absent | ||
| 8. "The Monkey Show, Part 1": | Absent | 21. "A Midwinter Night's Dream, Part 2": | Absent | ||
| 9. "The Monkey Show, Part 2": | Mentioned | 22. "Rose: Portrait of a Woman": | Absent | ||
| 10. "Ro$e Love$ Mile$": | Absent | 23. "Home Again, Rose, Part 1": | Absent | ||
| 11. "Room 7": | Absent | 24. "Home Again, Rose, Part 2": | Absent | ||
| 12. "From Here to the Pharmacy": | Absent | 25. "One Flew Out of the Cuckoo's Nest, Part 1": | Absent | ||
| 13. "The Pope's Ring": | Absent | 26. "One Flew Out of the Cuckoo's Nest, Part 2": | Absent | ||
Trivia[]
- It is mentioned that she liked to drink grain alcohol from a measuring cup.
- It was mentioned by Stan that she is a loud chewer.
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References[]
- ↑ "Maude" Walter's Stigma (TV Episode 1976).” n.d. IMDb.https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0644401/
- ↑ 2.0 2.1 2.2 2.3 The Golden Girls, Season 3, Episode 25, "Mother's Day". Lloyd, Christopher (writer) & Hughes, Terry (director) (May 7th, 1988)
- ↑ The Golden Girls, Season 6, Episode 3, “If At Last You Do Succeed”. Spina, Robert (writer) & Diamond, Matthew (director) (October 6th, 1990)
- ↑ The Golden Girls, Season 7, Episode 6, “Mother Load”. Perzigian, Jerry and Seigel, Don (writers) & Passaris, Lex (director) (October 26th, 1991)
- ↑ The Golden Girls, Season 1, Episode 2, "Guess Who's Coming to the Wedding". Hervey, Winifred (writer) & Bogart, Paul (director) (September 21st, 1985)
- ↑ The Golden Girls, Season 1, Episode 25, "The Way We Met". Speer, Kathy and Grossman, Terry (writers) & Hughes, Terry (director) (May 10th, 1986)
- ↑ The Golden Girls, Season 3, Episode 2, "One for the Money". Fanaro, Barry; Grossman, Terry; Hervey, Winifred; Nathan, Mort and Speer, Kathy (writers) & Hughes, Terry (director) (September 26, 1987)
